Last updated November 2025
In August of 2009, I wrote a post titled Tortitude: The Unique Personality of Tortoiseshell Cats. The post describes some of the unique traits that many of these beautifully colored cats seem to share: they tend to be strong-willed, a bit hot-tempered, and they can be very possessive of their human. Other words used to describe torties are fiercely independent, feisty and unpredictable. They’re usually very talkative and make their presence and needs known with anything from a hiss to a meow to a strong purr.
The post still gets hundreds of views every single day, and has generated more than 14,500 comments to date. It has become more than just a source of information for cat lovers looking for more about cats with these distinct orange, tan and black colors: it has become a place for people to share stories about the torties in their lives.
As someone who has been owned by four torties at this point, not counting my first office cat at the animal hospital I managed, I’ve become somewhat of an expert on these special cats. And while Virginia, Amber, Buckley, Ruby and Allegra all had or have some degree of tortitude, their personalities were and are also very different. This appears to be true for the torties whose guardians have shared their stories here on the site as well.
What is a tortoiseshell cat?
Contrary to what some people think, tortoiseshell cats are not a breed. They are named for their distinctive coloring – a combination of patches of black, brown, amber, red, cinnamon and chocolate. The size of the patches can range from a speckled pattern to large splotches of color. Tortoiseshell cats have have very few or no white markings, as opposed to calicos, who are tri-colored cats with larger areas of white fur. Sometimes, the colors are more muted. These torties are known as dilute torties. Very dark torties with a lot of black in their fur are often affectionately called “chocolate torties.” Occasionally, the typical tortoiseshell colors are also seen in a tabby (striped) pattern; these cats are referred to as “torbies.” Tortoiseshell is not a breed, the distinct markings appear in many different breeds.
The unique genetics of tortoiseshell cats
In addition to their unique personalities, torties also have unique genetics. A cat’s main color is determined by a primary coat color gene. The tortoiseshell pattern is determined by two co-dominant genes, in other words, two genes that are expressed at the same time and affect each other. In a bi-colored tortie, these two genes comingle to produce the characteristic brindled tortoiseshell pattern. In dilute torties, these genes are modified by a recessive gene, which results in softer coat colors. Black becomes grey, orange becomes cream.
The vast majority of tortoiseshell cats are female, because two X chromosomes are required to produce black, gold and orange coloring. Male cats only have one X and one Y chromosome, so technically it’s genetically almost impossible for a male to inherit the tortoiseshell coloring. A male tortoiseshell has an extra X chromosome, making it an XXY. According to a study by the College of Veterinary Medicine at the University of Missouri, only 1 in 3000 tortoiseshell cats is male.
A tortoiseshell cat may have a distinct tabby pattern on one of its colors. This pattern is driven by yet another gene. Tabby cats, also referred to as tiger cats, are cats with a coat featuring a pattern of distinctive stripes, lines, dots or swirling patterns. These cats are known as torbies, and, like all tortoiseshell cats, are predominantly female.
Tortoiseshell Cat Folklore
Tortoiseshell cats have a mythical folklore in many cultures, much of it centered around the rare male tortoiseshell. The Celts considered it a good omen if a male tortoiseshell stayed in their home. English folklore has it that warts could be healed if rubbed by the tail of a male tortoiseshell’s tail during the month of May. Japanese fishermen believed that male tortoiseshells protected their ships from storms and ghosts. A Khmer legend in South East Asia has it that the first tortoiseshell arose from the menstrual blood of a goddess born of a lotus flower.
Torties are thought to bring good luck in many cultures. They are sometimes referred to as the money cat.
Tortoiseshell cats were believed to have psychic abilities and see into the future. It is said that those who dream of a tortoiseshell cat will be lucky in love.
Are tortoiseshell cats really different from other cats?
Speaking from personal experience, it appears that no two tortoiseshell cats display the exact same amount of tortitude. Virginia had definitely read the book on tortitude. The first time I met her, during my interview for the hospital manager position, she greeted me by walking over to me, looking up at me, and then digging her claws into my legs to use them as a scratching post. Amber was the “anti-tortie” – she was a gentle, calm, almost shy cat, but she was a bit headstrong. Buckley’s tortitude manifested in her exuberance. She loved everything and everybody. Allegra is highly sensitive to the world around her, and often quick to react to something that she perceives as a threat. Ruby is the most high-spirited cat I’ve ever had. Of all my cats, she is the one with the highest dose of tortitude.
The experts weigh in on tortitude
I decided to check with some other experts to get their thoughts on tortitude. “I often tell clients that torties are the redheads of the cat world,” says feline veterinarian Dr. Fern Slack, who owns Uniquely Cats Veterinary Center in Boulder, CO. “They are beautiful, but short-tempered and quick to wrath. Of course they are not all like that, any more than every redhead is – but I always approach a tortie with a tad more circumspection than any other coat color.” While Dr. Slack takes a cautious approach to her tortie patients, she adds “I’ve always thought that the price you pay in tortitude, you get back tenfold in love.”
“There is no evidence that there is a link between color gene and personality,” says the late Dr. Elizabeth Colleran, a former president of the American Association of Feline Practitioners and former owner of two cat hospitals. “It is true though, that almost all tortoiseshell cats are females, and some people perceive females as being more headstrong than male cats. However, the real determination of personality is naturally a combination of genetics and environment.”
Jackson Galaxy has worked with his share of tortoiseshell cats in his decades of helping cats with behavioral challenges. “In my experience, tortitude is a very real thing,” says Jackson. “And now that there is a a study correlating coat pattern with behavior, our characterizations have been validated. Of course, anyone who knows me, knows I try not to talk about cats in generalities.” Jackson feels that torties and calicos are more energetically sensitive. “I think that’s part of the reason why their personalities are always on full display,” he says. “I’ve always said that cats are energetic sponges. Torties, however, just seem to soak up more, which is why they’ve got so much to say.”
Tortoiseshell cats are special
Those of us who love torties embrace their unique personalities. It is important to remember that every cat, regardless of coat color, is an individual. Not every tortie will exhibit the traits attributed to these beautifully colored cats, but the majority seem to live up to their reputation. As far as I’m concerned, tortitude is real. And while torties may, at times, seem like they have split personalities, going from purring away in your lap to suddenly racing around the house like a crazy kitten, those of us who love them wouldn’t want them any other way.
My tortie, Violetta, is now 2 years old. She and her ginger brother Thomas found me when their little feral mother (a tortie-point siamese) showed up on my back porch where I feed some community cats. The other cats chased her away, but I could see she was nursing kittens, and soon she and her 2 kittens were hanging around nearby. I decided to rescue the kittens and have the mother spayed or there would be no end of community cats chasing each other from the food dish. The kittens were about 6 weeks old and very easy to trap. The poor little ginger kitten had horrible diarhea and eye infections, and I don’t think he would have survived to adulthood out in the woods. The tortie was adorable and healthy but UNTOUCHABLE. I kept them in a quiet room inside and nursed ginger Thomas back to health. Tortie Violetta would play a little and then hide. Mama, still outside, would not go near the trap, but really wanted to reunite with her kittens, so i used them to lure her into the house, where I eventually managed to corral her into the kitten room, then the trap so she could be taken to be spayed (this process took a week!). She recuperated in the kitten room for weeks, but refused to socialize. Thomas became quite friendly. Violetta continued to show interest in distance toys but would always hide from me. After a month of this, I decided to leave the window open to let Mama decide where she wanted to be which of course was outside. The kittens stayed, and Mama hung around outside that window on the porch for some time. By now I had been working with these kittens for 6 weeks, and one day Violetta just flipped a switch and let me pet and cuddle her while she rolled and stretched and purred. Maybe she decided I was her mother… Every time after a pet and purr fest, when I put her down, she just rolled into a ball on the floor like a lovebug. We have been fast friends ever since. She sleeps next to me most nights and still purrs, stretches, and reaches out when pet. She almost never get sassy, except when Thomas gets too aggressive. She does talk a lot, not loudly, but with quiet mews. And she is still very shy, hiding from everyone except my daughter. I think she is smart enough to be picky about her friends. I just wish I could share her sweetness (and silky, checkered coat!) with more people.
It’s such a wonderful experience when a cat comes around the way Violetta did. Thank you for being so patient with her, Jackie. She sounds like a wonderful little girl.
Jackie, like Ingrid said – it is a Special day when a cat (or kitten) decides to open their heart and give their trust to you. Some take longer (and being a Tortie – she had top decide if you were the right one). So glad Violetta chose you.
I have a 5 month old Tortie name Molly. She spends all evening sleeping in my lap or my wife’s. BUT, this is only on Molly’s terms. Too much moving around or incorrect petting can result in an acute attack from Molly. Then she will sit up with an angry and disappointed look on her face like someone did something horrible to her. Molly will then jump down and come back up to my lap about 10 minutes later and try again. Molly also has a pain in the butt habit where she comes in our bedroom every night between 11pm and 2am and meows until my wife gets up and locks her in the basement until morning. This has been going on religiously for 5 years. Like most Torties Molly meows all day and always makes a grand entrance when entering a room by meowing and standing proudly showing off her beautiful coat. Everyone that meets her claims she has the most amazing markings and her personality is hilarious. Because of Mollys ridiculous facial expressions and unpredictable personality her nick name is “freak head” or we just all her “FH” for short. We laugh about 20 times a day just watching her go about her daily routines and doing hilarious things. One neat thing about Molly is when she sits in the sun for a few minutes her green eyes get much more vibrant and brighter. It is almost like the sun temporarily recharges her and she gets a really wild look in her eyes. Molly is the best cat on the face of the planet and my wife and i love her to death. The most spoiled cat on the face of the planet. We love you Molly!
Molly sounds like a wonderful tortie girl, Ryan! Thank you for sharing her with us.
Ryan, Molly has you almost trained. Torties are good at that.
Never thought of the Sun recharging our cats but my Stirfry had Brilliant Green eyes. Apparently she was fully charged. If the other cats had known that they would have shut the blinds. Would love to see pics of Molly. Can you put them on Ingrid’s FB page?
Yes I will add some pictures. Thanks for your reply.
Thank you for this blog! I have 2 cats. A Tortie named Jingles and a ginger named Duncan. Duncan is very trusting and prefers to be in my arms and belly up. He is very affectionate. Until I read this blog, I thought maybe Jingles was in need of professional counseling. She rubs against my legs and when I reach down to pet her jumps away as if to say “Do not touch.” At times she will be sitting in the hallway and for no apparent reason – she’ll shoot 3 feet straight up in the air, flip around and take off down the hall. At night she sits on top of the TV and stares at me while I attempt to watch a program – which is tough to do when being stared down. I have had a terrible time with her gnawing cables, computer cords, etc. I have tried wrapping them with aluminum foil without success. Two weeks ago I balled up a bunch of foil trying to keep her from getting behind the computer. Before I had finished she was running down the hall with a ball of foil in her mouth which she proceeded to shred into slivers. And shredding does seem to be her hobby. Foil, paper, sticky notes, anything she can get. She’s like a warm blooded paper shredder. She loves to play in water and frequently gets in the shower with me. She meows constantly but has everything she needs and has been vet checked. She just likes to talk I guess. Anyway – this blog has given me hope. Maybe she’s not nuts after all.
“I thought maybe Jingles was in need of professional counseling” – you’re probably not the first person owned by a tortie who thought that, Julie! Jingles sounds like quite a character.
I named my Torti DeeDee, short for “domestic diva”. She has a friend, Dot, as in laser toy. And yes, she’s quick as Dot is. I’ve often wondered if she can read my mind. One thing I have come to understand about Miss Deeds. When she’s around, it’s all about her ha-ha!
Domestic Diva sounds like a purrfect name for a tortie to me, Marcia!
Julie, join the club. As Ingrid said ” you’re probably not the first person owned by a tortie who thought that “. That’s how most of us ended here. A cat that did not fit the stereotype of the “normal house cat” A Tortie. Jingles sounds fantastic.
One of our family cats growing up was a tortie named Speckles. I didn’t realize when I was so young, that not all members of my family were not clued into how to properly care for and interact with cats, especially my dad. She clawed and hissed and generally scared the piss out of most of our visiting family & friends. But generally if she was left alone and treated with kindness she could be a very fun-loving and affectionate cat, in her own distant way.
Us kids were never quite as put off or afraid of her standoffish nature as the adults and I never let a little bloodshed get between me and my best friend. Looking back at some of the things my younger self did, such as dress her in doll clothes, I cringe, but despite how annoying that must have been for her, she still loved me anyway.
My dad was a young father and very hot tempered. He wasn’t good with cats back then and had a very short fuse he was never taught to control. Speckles had a special dislike for my dad as he found it funny to scare her because he thought her reactions were so humorous. One day, I was being a stubborn little girl and grinding on his last nerve. I don’t remember the specific offense, but I remember the spanking. I was crying as my dad laid into me and Speckles came charging onto the scene and clamped onto the back my dad’s ankle in a blaze of furry vengeance. My mom was dumbstruck having never witnessed a cat protect a human like that before. It is still one of those stories that gets dusted off and retold like clockwork when talking about the cats.
Her behavior started to mellow out after my parents divorced, she got older, and I learned a thing or two about how she liked to interact, but she never lost the fierce protectiveness or her assertive streak.
She gave birth to several litters of kittens throughout the years and was an incredibly maternal soul. We had the unexpected pleasure of caring for two litters of kittens at once when I was in Jr high. One belonged to Speckles and the other to her daughter, ironically, named Angel. Speckles kept her brood warm in my upstairs bedroom closet in a suitcase lined with my old California raisins sleeping bag. Angel kept her little ones in the very central location of our dining room in a cardboard box lined with my mother’s silky 5 year anniversary jacket from work. One day Angel had left the box to seek out some food in the kitchen when Speckles appeared in need of a refuel, herself. As she neared the cardboard box of unsupervised kittens she haulted her trek for the kitchen. Instead she trotted over to the box, leaned inside, and lifted a mewling kitten by its scruff out of the box and set off at a brisk pace to place the little orphan with its two cousins in the suitcase. Again, a very memorable moment that gets dusted off frequently and usually dissolves us all to giggles. Eventually the kitten swapping was a little troubling for us so we moved both Mama cats and their kittens into the same box to nest. We almost died of a cute overdose.
Speckles passed away from a cancerous chest tumor at age 14. I look back at what I know now vs how we cared for the cats then and feel regret that we made so many mistakes. Today my husband and I care for two cats, a petite, 7 yr old, toothless, polydactyl, tuxedo cat named Squirt and a 10 yr old, domestic, Maine coon mix named Jasmine my family adopted back when I was in high school. We are so happy to have “rescued” them and we “spoil” them rotten cause they deserve so much more than we could ever give. I don’t know what we’d do without them.
Thank you for sharing Speckles with us, Vanessa.
I have a tortie named Rogue. I didn’t like cats growing up because they always seemed so mean, or crazy. I saw a mouse in my house and decided to get a cat to keep them out. Her color was so odd to me in the beginning, but an employee at the vet told me that she was her favorite color of cats, and can have quite a personality. My friends all knew I wasn’t a pet person, and thought it was funny that I got a cat. I haven’t seen any mice in 2 years, but she is more than a mouse catcher to me now. I love her personality. She can be fussy, or loving, playful or lazy. She keeps me company while I work from home, and reminds me to get up every hour or so.
I love how Rogue won you over – and what a great name for a tortie!
Typical Tortie.
They grow on you. When I 1st took in a Tortie I thought she was a mean cat with major problems. As I learned more about her and thru Ingrid’s blog the personalities of the type I fell in love. Had up to 4 ( and if Bernie’s not looking 2 more). So glad Rogue picked you out.
PERFECT EXAMPLE OF TORTITUDE:
I thought I’d come on tonight and tell you all of Isabell’s adventure today. She got out when I was letting one of my dogs out. Usually she says away from the door when the dogs are their. I guess she decided to show some of that ‘totitude’. She ran out. I screamed cat so my hubby could catch her Assyrian by. No luck there. She ran to my back yard thankfully it’s fenced in to high for her to jump. Yt? After many attempts if catching her she kept darting past. Then to my back Fitchburg since we were still trying to catch up we weren’t fast enough and she changed course toward the street when I screamed NO! So she went for my two big bushes to the neighbors yard. Back to my driveway where Larry was waiting spun around back where I was but was so fast bypassed me and was gone. Then over the smaller ranch fence into the other neighbors yard but something scared her so she turned and ran back to the door where finally we got her in. Then she really had the nerve to meow at me like I did something wrong after I finally made it back into the house from having a mild heart attack from chasing her. Talk about fast…She’s like lightening. I think I named her wrong. Anyways after much of her yelling g at me and me telling her never again Izzy. She just played around staring at me. Like hahaha. I got over on you today. Cause I told her as she sat in the window this afternoon, you will never go out there so enjoy those Windows. I guess she showed me.
Now she very content or just tired from the long Chase just relaxing in New spots she usually avoids because if my dogs. I think she’s just became queen if the house.
So no luck with cat meets rabbit tonight cause she wore me out . I guess that’s tomorrow’s adventure.
So glad you got her back in. I know the feeling and so does Bernie. I had Stirfry get out and she was gone for 3 days many years ago. And Bernie had someone not paying attention when they were doing work on her house leave the door open and her kittens Liberty and Justice get out only days after she had rescued them. She was frantic and I was getting ready to travel across the State to look for them.
Now be extra careful every time you open the door. You don’t need that extra stress and Izzy needs to learn she is “indoor kitty” now.
Your telling Me Jay! scared me to death when she ran toward the street.
She seems to have calmed down after “the Chase” about going out. She actually seems content in the window now. I think she got scared more then anything with me and my hubby chasing her.at least she ran to the back door. That tells me she knows she’s safe inside . I yelled at Madiecause it took her forever to just come out and that’s when Izzy decided to run for it. Even though Maude has a good excuse. She was paralyzed completely for four months. With surgery and a lot of therapy, love and care she walks .no wheels. And it wasn’t a great chance. But we did it. And she’s a bit wobbly but not slow by any means. She just plays games. So I told her t was also her fault and never do that again. Yup swear. Scolding children.
And Of course she still looks out the door but she hasn’t made a run for it.
Also today I let Jax out. Since Izzy sleeps in the same room she was crashed out in the chair when Jax came out. I think he got a little scared cause he froze n the spot then turned around and went back in. I was cleaning the under part of his house and crazy Izzy decided to lay on the pan. Thank god Jax uses the liter box and it’s only extra food , cedar and bedding Jaxs likes to stick down there so she didn’t get dirty or smelly. But she just hung out then decided to look in the house.they were touching nose to nose .very cute. Wish I’d have had a camera at the time. But I think they’ll be fine together. I’d love to see them play.
I put a video of Izzy playing in the sink on FB yesterday.
She’s doing new things now everyday with the dogs. Which makes me really happy amount other things . I need my kids in harmony even if they are supposed to be all enemies. She’s a great addition.
I noticed she’s getting bigger already. Could be due to she was a stray. At least she got human attention before she turned feral. We still have no idea where she came from or how she got in but she’s one lucky kitty finding this home.
I’m glad yours were safe when you had your incident. It’s so scarry. I’m just like you I’d have driven wherever it took it get one of my babies back. This is one reason she’s wearing a collar too. She seems to have no problem with that but when she being really crazy it snappes off. Which is better then her being hurt. But if it ever happens again , I’m praying it doesn’t, and I don’t get her at least she’s friendly enough to go to a person and tagged plus chipped I know I’ll get her back.
Oh have a great weekend. I been meaning to check your page out on F B. I think I’ll do that
Hope you had a great weekend.
Oh and Bernie says your quite the cat whispered.
I was recently acquired by a very assertive talkative affectionate stray female tortie kitten, when I had not planned to be on the market to get a cat. She insisted and succeeded. She fits the stereotype of the tortie to a tee, superaffectionate, interactive, licking face in kisses, and verbal, cheerfully pouncing on you as you walk about the yard or try to pull weeds.
At the place I volunteer at is another tortie. She looks similar to my obnoxious baby, but so afraid, a fraidy cat tortoiseshell, ended up being raised up that way partly by being feral and partly by neglect. The bedazzling pushy charm of my kitty is missing in her though the coat color is the same. She cringes and flinches and shudders as I hold her, always quick to run away, like a wild thing.
I hold her and coo at her as she shudders every day, and then go home to my brat of same fur color demanding more soft fur and play time and pet time, and if I don’t give it to her she’ll bite me.
Your tortie found you, as seems to happen so frequently. I hope the scared little tortie at the place where you volunteer will eventually come to trust humans.
Hi Just Me, Sounds like you have a great little Tortie in your household.
What is her name ?
And that scared little girl at your volunteer site is waiting for a forever home. Can you take her in or find someone who will. I have taken in Feral s and they respond quickly to love and friendship. All she needs is a chance.
My daughter named her Misty, but I find I call her Kitty a great deal more. She is a luv, makes life much nicer. Back before my dog died she used to go on the evening walk with us every night.
She’ll knock over any cup left out to watch it spill, and if I don’t get up and feed her at prompting sometimes she’ll go around the house knocking things over until I fill her bowl. She’ll hop in the shower with us and will use the toilet, and I had to hide away the toothbrushes when I found them on the ground a few times and finally spotted her in the sink chewing on one.
Money right now means I really shouldn’t take on another responsibility, so I can’t take in the stray. But I’ll go pet her and hold her a bit today. Maybe eventually I’ll get a purr out of her. It is a no kill operation.
My Kitty had a turkey snack this morning and is off outside currently, probably pulling tails off lizards or sitting in the sun.
I’ve never had a cat like her before. Been around big placid toms, affectionate house cats, timid ferals, and withdrawn Persians, but never one like her. She does make life nicer.
I just had a thirties adopt me. We it first adopted my hubby by finding shelter in his garage(place of business), we have no idea how it got in. It is now 6,7 months old. She was about 3 months when he seen her and scared him to death. I told him feed it and not 3days later it was standing on cars watching him work talking non stop. Now she’s at home with us. I took her or shots, get chipped and spayed so I was the bad person for a week
She hid under the bed ,I had to bring her food. Now she’s all healed up and a crazy cat. Insists in going out which she will never do. But doesn’t stop telling me . She doesn’t want any food unless it’s shredded or chopped.she finally has given in and eats her dry food to but not without complaint. And can anyone please answer what kind of cat doesn’t like milk? I tried to shut her up over giving her pate food when I ran out of shredded one a Sunday after were closed. She wasn’t having it. So I tried milk. No way she looked a me like I as crazy. She is measuring up to all the traits I’ve read so far about the breed. Mouthy, playful and has chosen me over my hubby. Where I am she is all day and night. Even to the point if waking me to complain at 4 am. This was every hrs on the he when she went in heat for the first time. Yes I’ve very glad that’s over and will never happen again. So I’m guessing from reading posts from everyone here , I have the tortitude cat. I don’t know much about cats I’m usually a dog person. So I have 3 , a girlie, hepard/chow and silky terrier a ‘ll work don’t mind her and she seems to be adjusting well with them but not enough to play yet. Also if anyone can answer this. I have a domestic rabbit who’s used to running around ,its liter trained as well but I’m afraid to let it out if it’s house. Will she attack it or is it safe to let him out? She’s so chosen to sleep in his room, hang out on the windowsill and I’ve watched her walk past his house and ignore him. But isn’t it’s scars nature to kill them? So how do I introduce them or will she just leave him alone if i let him out to play? Anyone that has gone through this I’d love some info. Plus anything on feeding her besides what she tells me. She’s on the dry and caned food same brand. Seems to be doing well with it. And she has no name. Comes to cat. I’m not sure if this is from my hubby clang her that for a month before she came to live at her new home here. But I’d like to give her a real name.
Your kitty sure sounds like she’s got tortitude and then some, Lori! 🙂
It’s not a good idea to offer milk to cats, they lack the enzyme to digest it and most cats will get diarrhea from milk.
You can find my recommendations on what to feed here: https://ingridking.com/2012/03/22/the-best-food-for-your-cat/
Thanks Ingrid.
So it’s a good thing she didn’t want it.
Now she found playing on my banister at the top of the stairs entertainment. She’s trying to cat catch her tail thru the slates. And drinking from the faucet and the dogs drinking bowel. . Forget her water bowel. Thanks for the feeding recommenddation. She ate the whole can of food this morning. No I didn’t give it to her. I gave her about a 1/3.she opens lids, doors,carrier zipper. I just haven’t figured out snowshoes doing it.
Lori, it sounds like a Tortie adopted you. They are very possesive of their human. Getting into thing is the kitten in her but the talking and demanding is the Tortie. What is her name ?
As to the rabbit, take it slow. Every cat is different and I know most of mine would love to have a playmate like that.
Thanks Jay,
we were thinking of letting the rabbit (JAX) out tonight to get them in the same room and see what happens with e and my hubby incase we need ot do a quick rescue.
I cannot think of a nsme to fit her at the moment and her being at my husbands shop and everyone calling her cat for a month is what she comes to but I really want to change it. I like Sioban pronounced ( SO_BON) but am not sure that’s fitting for her. I was kinda waiting for her true personality to come out and now that it has this last week, after the trama of spaying and hiding for a week , Sioban doesn’t seem fitting. but I am not sure what is. now shes is busy sitting on the rail looking at her tail and trying ot get it thru the slates. and lets me not forget talking to me which seems never ending. I made her get off my keyboard so she went to the rail.
I think she adopted my husband first but then she spends the majority of her time with me so she is listening to me and not him but she plays with him mostly swatting and biting him but not hurting him. ad she gives you her paw. I thought that strange for a cat. But she places it right on your hand.
any ideas on a cool name?
See what name she responds to.
Mine were named as to personality, what the liked or it seemed right.
Onyx – Bernie named him. A black cat that she called a Jem.
Frankie – Tuxie with Blue eyes
Diver – A LARGE Malee Tortie that sounds like a ton of bricks when he hits the floor.
Eclipse – another house panther that 1st let me touch him under the Blood Moon Eclipse.
Styx – a Tortie that got a bad rap (Bernie !!!!) that responded to the song Renagade by Styx
Arianrhod – – named after the Goddess of the Silverwheel (she a silky Russian Blue that is silver in color – and has the Goddess attitude)
A my soul cat – Stirfry – who crossed the Bridge last fall but will always have my heart.
So each name fits the cat or she will tell you what it should be.
Let us know what you pick.
Gem /not Jem
Sorry 🙂
That’s how I like to pick names. I love your cats names and meanings. Sorry to hear about Stirfrys passing.I just had a Yorker Speedi,cross the bridge , who was just that , ran around the house as fast as those tiny legs would take him until he got sick. But he passed right about the time this pretty girl found us. I thought of naming her Gemma because her gold shines really bright but no. It fits her color not personality. I will figure it out hopefully by the end of this week. I really want her named and not cat. I’m hoping she responds to something cause I hear it takes them months to learn their names but in her case she took to cat immediately. That’s what they called her at the garage.
Real creative huh?..lol
By the way we held her to the house of my rabbit with the door open and she couldn’t care less. Either of them really. Now the next step is letting Jax out. See how they react while he’s hoping around.
Also did your come to their names immediately?
Thinking back and after reading this article on Torties I was thinking way back when I was in my 20s I saved a kitten that looked tiger striped I named Tiger of Course took to it right away and I also believe it was a tortie now. It’s coloring was the same, just striped. It used to talk to me. Wake me up rubbing noses every morning and always doing crazy things. My mistake was letting it be outside when it wanted. It passed away about 5yrs of age. No idea how just never woke one morning.
But I will let you no what I come up with.
Thanks for the info.
Here’s my FBpage and her pic.
Will change it on the connection I have on here so it she shows.
https://www.facebook.com/Roxgirl
The swatting and biting when your husband plays with her sounds like play aggression, you may want to discourage that, Lori: https://ingridking.com/2012/02/23/play-aggression-in-cats-biting-the-hand-that-teases/
Lori, all my cats answer to their names. I will check out your FB page tomorrow (presently I am at work – 2nd shift) You can see my cats on video’s where I feed them – all answer to their names. Arian answers more to “Goddess”. And Bernie gets jealous as mine will answer to me but hers ignore her (her Tortie Justice will come to me also) Frank will even give a meow if he’s in the other room when I call, then come running in. It doesn’t take long as I changed Styx’s name right after I got her and within a week she would look at me when I called her name and not anothers.
Sounds like Tiger was a Torbie (Tortie with tiger stripes)
Lori, I highly recommend that article Ingrid listed.
1 – It explains a lot on cat behavior
2. The Author – Harry Shubin is a great friend and works with a couple shelter to find forever homes for cats (he is a very poor foster father as he keeps most of the ones he fosters 🙂 )
3. Harry is on here a lot and it pays to be on his good side – I might need another cat.
I also suggest you read his other article
https://ingridking.com/2012/02/08/petting-aggression-in-cats-biting-the-hand-that-loves/
as that one has Stirfry’s picture on it and it was well earned – Stir took no prisoners when it came playing.
Hi Jay,
Sounds like your cats are all very cool and smart. Today we, me and the cat decided on Isabell . I have no idea how it even came out of my mouth but she was meowing at me all day and I said pick am and then Isabell just came out and she liked it so I called her it about 4 or 5 times and she’s coming to it. It’s like she picked it somehow.
So I guess that’s what it now is.
She likes it. Seems to fit pretty well.
She really wants outside. I’m thinking if putting her in a leash and walking her in the yard. She were her collar all the time with a bell and her chip tag on it so I’m thinking it’s safe enough. I can also put on a jacket type thingy I have for walking my rabbit outside that would fit her fine .maybe that would be even safer. But then again if I let her out she might always want out. Right now I let her hang out in the window opened with a screen if. Course. But she was a actually scratching on the door while I was out on the back porch today doing some painting. He wouldn’t leave me alone. I’m really afraid if I’d let her out she might get lost or hurt so I don’t want her out at all.
Do you think it’ll just pass soon if I keep her in and don’t let her win this fight?
I’d love to see pics if your cats.do you post them anywhere? I haven’t seen anything on here to o st them but I’m also not using a laptop. I no out don’t get all access on a kindle on any site.
Let me no a out your cats.
I think your right about my Tiger too. Hey seem so alike in traits. Mouthy , smart and crazy energy . She’s running around jumping from the banister to her cat stand to the chair , up and down the stairs and God knows what else . She sounds like theirs 5 of them and it’s just her. She’s not big but I had to laugh today when she jumped and it sounded so loud. I thought of your cat Diver.
I’ll have to check out videos. I have one of her the first week I had her playing with a catnip ball. Do you no why I’ve been told at 7 months she shouldn’t like catnip? She loves it.
Don’t work too hard!
I’m a firm proponent that cats should be kept indoors, but if you must let them out, leash training is a good option. Here’s more information: https://ingridking.com/2015/04/02/leash-training-cats/ The one draw back is that it will give cats a taste of the great outdoors, and you may end up with a “door dasher” who will try to get outside anytime a door opens.
Most kittens won’t respond to catnip until they’re adult, and only about 50% of adult cats will respond. It sounds like Isabelle is the exception to the kitten rule!
Hi Lori, I am following your story of “Isaella”. I can just see that antics of her now. I like Jay and so many others here are never sure about the predictably of our Torties. I was owned by a beautiful Tortie I named Steeler. She was black and gold and being a big Steeler fan, she just fit that name. She wore it proudly, almost like she knew she was so extra special to me and so many other. Like Stirfry, she passed over the bridge on April 30, 2012. She had Tortitude unlike any other. She is so badly missed to this day.
I have 2 Torties now. Justice and DaJudge. Jay has hijacked my Justice’s love. She adores him and shows him love like I had never seen her do before.
I call Jay, a cat whisperer. He can talk to the kittens and they all respond to him. I have watched his little one all come to him. One at a time when called by name, including the “Goddess”. I am jealous of that. I can call mine (except Freedom, she comes to me as soon as I call her, but she is a russian blue) and neither Tortie will come to me until they decided, no or no name.
Isabella shoulds like she has that fortitude down to a science also. She is being what I call you “velco” kitten. I can see her name getting shortened to “Bella” in no time. If I may make a suggestion, about the great outdoors. My kittens are all outdoor rescues, as are Jay’s. All our kittens are indoor only. Their safey is a major concern first and foremost. Then there is the fleas and ticks that come from outdoors. Flea infestation can come from one flea and be very difficult to treat.
She keeps scratching the door to, in an effort to get out? Just say nope, your an indoor kitty now.
She will eventually learn she is not going out. Also, give her some high places she can climb or windowsills she can sit on to watch outside or as I refer to as Cat TV. With all the birds, squirrels and other outdoor critters, my girls are entertained all day.
Keeping her in, also makes for a healthier cat and their life expectancy is greater than if she goes out.
I will check out the precocious little Tortie on your Facebook page. I know she will be a beauty. I have never seen a Tortie or any other cat that isn’t beauty in so many ways.
Hi Bernie,
Sounds like you have your hands full.
I also highly agree on the indoor cat only for safety reasons. She can mouth off all day all she’s getting us a open window screened in.
She loves her name and I also have been calling her Izzy, instead of Bella. She responds. She was just here for a little pet then took off.
Between you, Jay and Ingrid I’ve learned a lot. I cEnt thank you all enough.
I was never really a cat person so much as Dog but it seems she’s turned that around. She’s my little love now.
I was wondering besides scratching posts and clipping her nails how to get her to stop destroying my banister or is that just something I’m going to have to live with?
I just redid it and she’s s scratched it up nicely. But it’s her play area at night and I don’t have the heart to tell her get down when she’s having so much fun with her own tail.
I pretty much answered my own question there huh?
I also thought my hubby being the one that a actually rescued her from the cold and feeding her for the time at his garage she’d be his but it seems she’s adopted me to be her #1. I think he’s a bit jealous.
I am a pet a private pet groomer and only learned basic behavior . I groom cats ,actually have 2 coming tomorrow and with the info Ingrid sent about the whiskers I don’t want to legroom them anymore. I feel bad. Although only one has ever really but me in 9 years. I have noticed that these 2 coming love when I shave their bellies. So it must be a sensitive spot but they like it. With my Isabell, she loves her face rubbed, belly and behind. It’s up in the air. Before her spaying it never went down. Now it’s not as bad. And the catnip she goes crazy for. Rolling around holding the ball rubbing it against her face. She’s entertaining as well as a loud mouth. Also very demanding of her canned food. Which I won’t let her get away with and she has given in to my surprise. I’m really happy she found her way to my little mixed pet family. She fits right in. I still have yet to let Jax, my rabbit out to run with her. I’m just really Leary yet for no reason but she’s a cat. They seem ok while he’s caged in. She’s chosen that room to sleep in right next to him. He seems ok face to face with her but she’s being held in case of emergency. But I need to get them together cause he’s getting very mad about not coming out. Yes rabbits do get attitudes too. He kicks the side of his house so hard I’m surprised he hasn’t busted the wall down. So soon it’s going to have to happen. I’m just praying it goes well. As for my dogs. They just don’t care and she’s adjusted to them nicely . More so this last week. They love all animals so they don’t worry me. I actually raised my shepard/chow with a hamster that used to ride on his back. I think that tuned him soft to smaller animals people not so much. My girlies only care that they get their attention when wanted. And I think Diesel is half cat. He wraps his body around your leg and rubs against you just like Isabell but he’s done it since he was a pup so he didn’t learn it from any other animals behaviors.
I have quite the strange household of pets.
Also sorry for your lost of Steeler. No matter how long it us we never seem to get over them. I hope all of our babies are in heaven playing together. I think the lost if a pet us harder then a loss of a person. We get such limited time with them and love them so much and they love you unconditionally always.
My sister thinks I’m wrong but she doesn’t love her pets like kids , I do.
Ill be adding a video of her on my FB page playing with her catnip ball and she was in heat at the time too. Thank god for spaying.
Lori, Bernie can tell you more about Rabbits and Cats than I can. Her Steeler came in when Bernie had 2 bunnies. they got along great. Steeler clawed the out of a DOJ agent (A Federal Offense) but tell a Tortie that. I say let them play with supervision at 1st.
Izzy sound like a Great name. If she likes it then you did good.
All the outside cats are called “kitten”. Once give a name then they are officially yours. Frankie and Eclipse were both Feral/Farm cats but the names were picked before they came in. That 1st day they wre told their names and within a week answered to it.
(Frankie was never feral – I think he was stalking a rock as I saw him staring at the ground for hours in the rain in the field across the street from me). But he would answer when I yelled “kitten” and run across the street to see me and get fed.
Saw your FB page – Izzy is super cute.
Hi Lori,
So it sounds like Izzy is the new and snazzy name. I like that one. Your Izzy is a doll. I might be able to help you on the rabbit deal. Maybe! I had 2 miniature rabbits, litter trained and house bunnies. Then Steeler rescued me. I brought her in without even thinking about what would happen. After a very slow intro, I would let them loose in the sunroom and close the screen on the door and let Steeler watch them play. They would come to the screen and then it was nose to nose and each getting a good scent of the other. I finally opened up the sunroom and let them interact. I watched closely and found they were pretty good at the dancing around each other. It finally became a natural thing for Steeler and the rabbits to be together. My first glimpse at the acceptance was when I seen Steeler in the rabbit litter pan and the rabbits were with her. I guess it was a communal littler box. Steeler never once attempted to hurt them. They would at a certain of the evening go down the hall, the rabbits and Steeler, to the bedroom where my husband was in his bed. All three would sleep under his bed, together. It was a sight to see. Anyone who came to visit was amazed that Steeler, who would not allow a human, other than myself at that time to touch her was so very gentle with the rabbits. So I would say to allow the rabbit to socialize with the kitten under supervision and, if all goes well you should have a couple of buddies there.
My Steeler was a “little terrorist” nicknamed by me. There was an incident when my son’s team of DOJ agents were in my area and wanted to see Steeler. So many had heard of her, thanks to Ingrid and this site. So he detoured them to my place with the warning not to reach for the “cat”. He said he told them several times. She is a cutie but don’t reach for her. Well they arrived, and there were 5 agents. Of course they are well trained, however, the one could not take instructions very well and Steeler lured him to her with a reach and BAM. Blood flew and there was a loud yell as I recall and my son was going on at the agent and saying “I warned you don’t reach for the cat”. So how they explained that one headquarters, I never asked. But with the bunnies she was their guardian.
So this might help you. Hope you slowly let them play/interact. Short periods at a time. I will look forward to hearing how this goes for you.
Later in time, Jay came here and he was able to touch and hold Steeler. However, Jay brought nip and got her high and she loved him forever from then on. He was her nip man. 🙂
Bernie and Jay,
I can’ thank you both enough.
I added new pics of Izzy last night on my F B page. She was just doing her chill thing on my dinning room table watching the cat next door lay on the roof of my hubby jeep. So I took advantage and snapped a few. Also her bitting Larry cause she didn’t want to be bothered.
Rolling around showing off for the camera. Seems she likes her picture taken .
Bernie, the rabbit info is super helpful. They’ve done the intro thru the cage ten times over. Seems jax is getting depressed from lack of not being allowed out. He went to his bedroom yesterday and won’t come out. So I need to do something asap.
In going to let him out tonight and see what happens. izzy seems fine but that’s with Jax behind bars so it’s officially time to see how they work out without that barrier.
I can’t have a depressed rabbit. It’s just not cool with me and I feel horrible he’s only been out once in the last month when Izzy was off getting spayed.
Izzy’s morning ritual of waking up with me and following me to the bathroom in the morning ,waiting sitting in the sink til I turn it on to brush my teeth so she can drink from the faucet has turned into she waits til the water gets a little higher in the bowel then drinks from it instead of the running water coming out of the spicket like she used too. Then we have a talk coming downstairs.
She also seems to like Chinese food. Yesterday for the first time she jumped up on my coffee table and helped herself to a chow mein noodle. The hard ones. Not the soft noodles. I thought at first she was going to steal it and play with it til I heard her crunching it. Then she kept asking for more. So I gave her a couple then she was done. She’s never begged for human food before although she does loved chipped ham.
She’s getting better and better with the dogs. She was laying on my entertainment center bottom shelf last night as my Shepard /chow Chubbs rolled around in front of her trying to get her to play with him. He even brings her his giant Kong ball to play but she just stares at him . I’m sure soon enough those two will be playing. And she has now tested every window , moving blinds out of the way, to see what she can see and if she can get out. With no luck of course. I keep telling her, it’s never going to happen. I think the neighbor cats are what she’s after. Their not very well taken care of and over the winter I had them sleeping in my dog house feeding them until I threatened to call the animal control on the owners. They seem to now let them in the house, feed them and then throw them back out. Horrible parents. Not only to the cats. Just sad. So they come here because I feed them but they won’t get close to me.
Anyways I think that’s Izzy’s big attraction. They also apparently aren’t fixed because she screamed while in heat and they were outside yelling as well. Now that problems fixed but they still watch her.
Anyways thanks for the rabbit info. I Wil keep you both updated. If I can and they are sociall with each other I’ll get some pics to share. I never thought about then sharing the liter . Could be a good thing. But Jax uses the liter sticks where Izzy used fresh step. But you never know. Ajax won’t not use a litter box. But it’s screened on top so I don’t no if he will go in a big litter box with no top like his has. Would be great though.
After I try later I’ll let you all know what happened.imparting fur the best here.
Have a great day guys.
Help!!! We have had Princess Paisley for a month now. We have three bowls for her. One has dry food, one for water(fresh twice a day) and one for her wet food. The sweet little girl has chosen to be picky and will only eat certain wet food. If I don’t give her the wet food she wants, she won’t eat anything. I’m a stubborn gal so I thought OK if I leave it she will get hungry enough and eat it……NO WAY! She went three days without eating. Also because she mouses I have to deworm her once a month…….ANOTHER NO WAY! Also the only treats she will eat are small bits of turkey. She is such a sassy one. How do I get her to eat? I will get her favorite wet food but I still need to find a way to get her to take the dewormer med. Please help. I am at my wits end. I have the scratch marks to prove it.
My Muffin, was like that with her food. I gave up, and she was happy! I also had problems worming her….so I bought the paste and put it on her front leg. She hated it but licked it off! I guess I won that one! Haha. She has her wings now, miss her every day. Enjoy your tortie, love every frustrating minute you have together.
This article may help with your finicky girl, Emmy: https://ingridking.com/2013/07/03/how-to-get-finicky-cats-to-eat/
You said she’s a mouser – is it possible that she eats enough with what she hunts? A cat who doesn’t eat anything for three days is at risk for hepatic lipidosis, a potentially life threatening condition.
The link to the photo of Princess that you posted did not work. You can post photos of her to our Facebook page.
Thank you so much! I am following what the article said and I have a happy kitty. I got her to take the dewormer by mixing it with finely chopped turkey breast. Now we are all happy. By the way I am now researching how to feed my dogs. What I thought was the right way for years was very wrong. Thanks again Narelle and Ingrid.
Is the dewormer med in a pill form? I have a cat that is currently taking meds, in pill form. My cat HATES taking pills, so I was very worried about getting him to take his pills. I discovered Greenies “Pill Pockets”, that have a little hole, to put pills into and then you squeeze them closed. My cat gobbles them up, pill and all, no problem. Maybe they would help, with your cat’s meds?
When my mother went into a nursing home we adopted her Tortie, Angel. That was 12 years ago. Sadly, we had her put to rest at age 18 last week after a battle with diabetes and kidney failure. As I was trying to put some Kayro syrup in her mouth to raise her blood sugar level she bit me rich through the thumb…tortitude to the end.
I’m so sorry about Angel, Sue, but boy, you’re right: tortitude to the very end!
Sue, so sorry to hear about Angel. I know she had 12 wonderful years with you, and more with your Mom. And as Ingrid said – Tortitude to the End.
When I bought my house, a big older one in the city near a river, I found I had mice. I have two smaller dogs. A Bichon Frise and a Chiweenie. They can be a bit aggressive and selfish. I found I had a mouse problem in my house so I went to the Humane society and adopted Oscar, a big orange and white Tabby. He and the dogs tolerated each other. We didn’t even have him a year and he got sick. The vet informed us he had Lymphoma. A cancer in the lungs. He passed away at home while the Bichon lay by his side and wouldn’t leave him. We waited awhile then went to the shelter and found Paisley. She is small and I thought a barn cat. She had reached her little paw through the bars of her cage like she was reaching for us. We had to adopt her. I now found out that she is a Tortie. Her attitude is described here to a tee! She let the dogs know right away who was boss of the house. She will even swat at them to get them to chase her! She loves to play and doesn’t seem to be afraid of anything. She wasn’t with us but four days and had caught and killed a mouse. She brought it to us as if to say look what I did! You OWE ME! I am so glad she picked us at the shelter. I would have posted a picture of her but I don’t know how and I don’t know the facebook account name.
Paisley sure sounds like she read the book on tortitude, Emmy. Our Facebook page is https://www.facebook.com/consciouscat.
Welcome to the world of Tortitude Emmy. Sounds like Paisley picked you out at the shelter. Good choice. Giving her live mousies to play with is a bonus. And showing everyone in her new home who the Boss is, is typical Tortie. I had a Bichon years ago (Samatha) and Tabatha, my 1st Tortie got along great and Stirfry my 2nd, had kittens and Tabatha and Samatha raised them to be great cats. Stirfry didn’t tolerate anyone and was glad to be rid of that chore.
Would love to see pics of Paisley. Post them to Ingrid’s page.
Thunder and lightning yesterday Our Torties were saying they are watching over us. Bernie’s Steeler, Glen’s Kasey, Elizabeth’s Diesel and my Stirfry were active.
Here is 7-year-old Esther!: http://imgur.com/a/stlGo
I got her about 5 months ago from the pound. I had gone there “just to look at the cats”, cause after wanting one pretty much all my life (I got a cat tattoo on my arm like way before I got a cat haha!), I was finally moving into a pet-friendly apartment and was financially stable enough to make the commitment. After visiting with some kitties, I took one last look at her and the look she gave me through the cage just melted my heart completely, I couldn’t leave her there!
She is definitely a very unique kitty, but is anything but aloof. Within seconds of meeting her, people often say “Whoah, what a sweet kitty!!” because she is infamously affectionate. I’ve had more than one threat of people wanting to steal her. 😛 We’d often talk about how crazy someone would have to be to give this cat up, but now that I’ve had her for awhile I can certainly understand why Esther wouldn’t be for everyone.
She needs a LOT of attention, and needs to be in my lap a lot of the time. (Even when I’m drawing on my tablet, which can get pretty annoying when she’s pretty much sitting on it and rubbing her face on the tablet pen) If she’s not in my lap then she’s only like 2 feet away, even when I’m in the shower. Also I am pretty sure she meows constantly when I’m not home because I’ll stand in the hallway and hear her through the door. 🙁 It’s so sad!!
She’s also got some weird quirks: she HATES when I sleep late, and will climb into bed rubbing her face on my nose and glasses and biting my phone until I get up. Also whenever you play a video of a cat/kitten meowing she goes berserk and will bite you or something nearby!!
But for someone who’s an animal-loving hermit, Esther is the most perfect best friend I could ever ask for. I am thankful every day that she chose me at the shelter. I only wish cats lived so much longer!! Thanks for listening to me talk about my cat, fellow awesome cat people. 😀
What a beauty! Welcome to the wonderful world of being owned by a tortie, Rachel!
I adopted my Tortie about a year ago, as a new companion, for my older cat, Thor, my orange and white Tabby. I had recently lost my black cat, Damien, who I had for nearly 20 years. Damien had been diagnosed with hyperthyroidism and passed away, from that awful disease. Last week Thor, was also diagnosed with Hyperthyroid, too. Thor is 18 years old, and the vet told me to be prepared, as Thor will most likely succumb to the disease within a year or so – depending on how the meds work for him. I am so upset, by this! However, I am trying to be realistic. I know that, once Thor is gone, my Tortie, Vixen, will be at a loss, as she seems to be attached to Thor, now. (It took a while, for them to become close.) Now I am concerned about what to do, when Thor is gone. Vixen is sweet, with me, but can be aggressive and territorial. At the same time, Vixen has bundles of energy and is easily bored, by herself, as Thor was never interested in playing with her. I have purchased lots of toys and even an interactive dual laser, for her, but she lost interest in those things, after the first day or so. She has periods where she runs around the house, like a rocket, and literally climbs up the walls. I believe it is out of boredom and frustration. Here is my question – Do I bring another kitten into the house, to give her a companion, when Thor is gone, or do I let her rule the roost, alone? She is my first Tortie, so I’m unsure if she would prefer to be alone, or have a new companion, to play with. Thoughts?
Katseye, I am going to let our experts Ingrid, Bernadette and Harry answer that. They know way more than I do on that. I am just owned by 6 now and have had3 others cross the bridge in the last few years. I know Bernie lost Steeler to hyperthyroidism and at Thor’s age Radiocat is probably not an option. Love and affection and careful monitoring with the Vet is what you can do. Vixen sounds like a few Torties I know. Definitely has Tortitude.
I’m sorry about Thor. Has your vet discussed the I-131 treatment option with you? Here is more information about hyperthyroidism and the various treatment options: https://ingridking.com/2013/05/20/feline-hyperthyroidism-what-you-need-to-know/
As for your question about what to do after Thor passes, you don’t mention how old Vixen is. Usually, with a high energy cat like what you’re describing, I would recommend getting a companion of similar temperament for her, but since she can also be aggressive and territorial, I’m not sure that would be a good choice. You probably need to wait and see how she does once she’s an only cat before deciding what to do. And hopefully, that time will still be a long way off!
Katseyes I am truly sorry to read of your loss of one of your little ones to this thyroid issue. Now to have another 18 year old one is heartbreaking. I had a very special Tortie, Steeler, who also suffered from thyroid and other health issues. I did all I could for her. She was a one cat household. I think I will have to agree with Ingrid on this one. You have a high energy little one who seems to be bonded with Thor. I do think you may be wise to wait before thinking of adding a new one to your little ones just yet. Thor may be ok for a while yet. I would say, enjoy him for all he is worth. When he decides to cross that rainbow bridge, then your heart will know when or if the little one will be ok with another cat. Give Thor all the time he has to be comfortable with his little buddy for now.
My Tortoiseshell “TP” is very gentle and sweet with humans, but wanted NOTHING to do with another cat that I had adopted. the day I introduced the new kitten, “TP” turned around and gave me this look as if to say “NO! HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME?!” “TP” became depressed, would not eat, she would curl up and cry all day, and hiss and whine when the other kitten was too close. I found another home for the kitten, so all is well.
I went on a vacation last year, and I dropped TP off at a friend’s to be cared for, and apparently she was a complete nightmare for this couple. I had to come pick her up early, and she jumped right in my arms purring loudly.
Tortitude
Yup. That’s tortitude for sure, Tony!
Tony, sounds like a 1 house 1 cat Tortie. Bernie had Steeler and she was that way. I had Stirfry and she was that way but I already had another Tortie and a dog when I brought her in. She had kittens and fort the next 13 years just tolerated any other animal. Give TP tons of love and accept her as she is. Tortie.
TP Hi. I had my Tortie, Steeler. I lovingly called her “my little terrorist”. She was as Jay has said. 1 cat – l house only + 1 human only cat. So it sounds to me like you have a Tortie with lots of Tortitude. That’s for sure. I could not begin to advise you of anything to do with her. I never had an answer for Steeler. I just loved her the way she was.
Mollie aka Moo Moo Kitty is definitely different from any other cat. When I get up in the morning she squeaks until the she picked up and kissed and meets me at the door when I come home. She is dominant over the food in the house. She refuses to listen about not laying on the kitchen table. She has to lay in the same spot in the bed every night. If the bedroom door is shut, she cries and scratches the carpet until you let her in. She is so fluffy and I can’t get enough of rubbing her fur lol.
Mollie sounds like she knows what she wants and when she wants it, Christie! Tortitude for sure.
Christie, Mollie sounds so cute. She’s a long hair Tortie ? Love to see pics. Tortie’s claim their Human and train them quick. Sounds like your training is going well.
I dont know how to upload a pic
You can post photos to our Facebook page, Christie (link in the sidebar).
Christie, Mollie sounds just normal to me. I now have 2 Torties and a Russian Blue. My Torties use the table at will. I can tell them OFF the table until I am blue in the face. They just look at me, as if to say, yea, whatever. Little furry ones have a way of telling us to mind our own business, so I just live happily with mine, knowing for certain they will get on the table.
Yesterday I took Onyx to the Vet to be fixed (he didn’t think he was broken) and as they had a couple emergencies he was not done till late. Picked him up this morning and brought him home. He had a cloth cone around his neck. Someone on the Net called it “The Cone of Shame”. None of the others ever had that on and I was told to keep it on for a week. Right now he is bumping into everything and getting it wet from the water dish. Bernie wants me to take it off. Any feedback on if it is needed?
You can take th e-collar off while he’s eating and when you can keep an eye on him, but you should put it back on when you can’t watch him. You don’t want him licking or chewing at his stitches or rip them out. I’m sure the vet already told you to keep an eye on the incision. If you notice any redness, swelling or discharge, call your vet.
Thanks Ingrid. With Frank that would be ALL THE TIME as to Eating and sleeping.
Onyx is active. I’ll let ya know tomorrow.
My little panther is going to need a lot of loving and care from you. He is so small. I have worried all day about him. Glad you are now home to take care of him.
We just adopted a “tortie” yesterday. This is our family’s first tortie. We have had tabbies. Her name is Razzle!
Congratulations on your new family member, Michelle. Razzle is a great name for a tortie!
Razzle is such a cute name! Enjoy your new friend!
Congrats Michelle on your new girl. Tell us all about Razzle. Does she show any Tortitude yet, how old is she and how did you get her?
Michelle,, Great. I know Razzle will give you lots of surprises, love and maybe a little to a lot of Tortitude. 🙂 Torties carry a special gene.
I know today is the 14th but Bernie came down to see me on the 13th.I really think she wanted to see a little black cat on Friday the 13th. Supposed to be good luck. She had Onyx on the bed and Eclipse came down to see her.
My little tortoise is extremely friendly and very social. She comes to a click and loves to lay down next to you and will instantly get up if you pet her while she lays down and will start furiously rubbing her head agenst you. She is also a very odd cat she doesn’t like treats and would much rather bat around a price of candy vs a real toy. She doesn’t shy from strangers instead she goes and begins to rub at their ankles. She sleeps next to me every night and has an extremely loud purr before sleeping. as for the edit my cat is an open feeder and quitequite small at 9 pounds. I suggest feeding the other cats when she’s not arrounnd or move her to another room and feed her a set amount separately and move her back when the other cats are done.
I was there and Onyx is the most energetic kitten I have ever seen. He keeps all Jay’s little ones playing. He goes from one cat to the other, making each of them to play with him at his will. You just have to love that kitten.
I rescued my tortie over 12 years ago. It took her only an hour at home to crawl onto my chest while I was laying on the couch and snuggle into my hair with he loudest purr I’ve ever heard from a kitten.
She’s been the best and most mischievous cat I’ve ever owned. I’ve saved two cats since and she absolutely must be the queen of the house. She gets terribly disgruntled and envious if I feed, pet, or play with the others and I hear her *sigh* and *huff* in a corner as she glares.
Still, I can’t believe how bright and loyal she is; even comes to a whistle every time.
I’m wondering if anyone else has seen this behavior; she tore off a big red pompom from a toy mouse as a kitten and ever since she’s carried it around meowing whenever she craves attention. Also, if anyone has diet suggestions that would be wonderful. Wanting to be the alpha has her doing everything in her power to eat all of the food. She cleans her own dish then, as my other cats are finicky eaters she grazes on theirs if they don’t finish. She’s also opened the cupboards and pulled everything out in search for food (chewed through a few dry food bags before I got plastic containers). She’s quite obese and I’d really like to get her healthy as she is starting to show signs of arthritis.
Your girls sounds wonderful, Sara.
To answer your first question about the toy, yes, this seems to be something a lot of cats do. My Allegra does it. There seem to be a few different theories as to why this happens, here’s more information: https://ingridking.com/2012/03/07/allegras-baby/
You can find my recommendations for what to feed here: https://ingridking.com/2012/03/22/the-best-food-for-your-cat/
Hi Sara, I have one Tortie who get very jealous if I play with another cat. She will get up and walk away with a mad backwards glance. Styx loves me but only just tolerates other cats.
All of my cats will come when called and when prompted (food works) will talk to me.
All come to greet me when I come home at night. The only one who never did was my Tortie Stirfry. I had to come to her.
She is the one that had an Attitude.
I love this. We adopted a tortie, our first ever, who just turned a year old in Feb. She also carries a certain toy around crying. She also likes to get in the cupboards and take her bag of treats out and carry those around. She even occasionally rips them open and helps herself. She is very much unlike any cat we have ever had. She keeps us on our toes. 🙂
“She keeps us on our toes.” – Yup. That’s a tortie for you, Kristen. 🙂
I am so glad I came across this site! We have a chocolate tortie (as I just found out what color she was) as well as a black/white male. Basically, we adopted a black/white stray cat we named Meeka. We then had the surprise of learning she was pregnant. She ended up having 2 black/white males & 2 tortie females (we kept one of each they are 5months now). Mocha our tortie has a personality or tortitude for dayyyysss. She’s sassy, super cuddly yet very energetic & strong willed. We play hide & go seek (she always finds me and let’s out a weird meow). One thing I’m still unsure of is how she wakes me up. She gets on my lap every morning and puts her face in my face, licks my lips, sniffs my eyes or rubs her face on mine. Then she’ll plop back down and lay againat my neck. This goes on in a cycle for a while and I actually don’t feed her my bf does and not first thing. She also doesn’t do this to him. Any thoughts? I will say so far she is an amazing cat (this is my 4th cat over my lifetime) I am truly lucky to have my little Mocha & Squirt (black n white lil boy). Thanks for all your info!
What a sweet wake up routine, Kristy! The face rubbing is marking behavior – she’s marking you as hers. I’m not sure about the rest of her routine, but I think she’s making sure you know that you’ve been adopted by a tortie. 🙂
Mocha has definitely shown you that you are hers. That is her way of letting you know it. Torties are so unpredictable, but if they love you, they will definitely let you know it. and it will be in their own way and time.
I rescued my Axl about 8 months ago from our local shelter. She was about 3 months old. I’ve had a few cats while growing up, but none of them were a handful like Axl is. She is super cuddly, yet energetic. I always know when it’s time for me to get up, her little voice is my alarm clock! She loves racing around the house. We have this game, when I chase her around, and we both meet up at the same place, she jumps up and I catch her in my arms. It’s fun for the both of us. She even plays fetch!! I throw her a toy, and she brings it right back to me! She is full of life and love. I would say she definitely has tortitude!!
What a great game, Nina!
Great name Nina, your wouldn’t happen to be a GNR fan would you ? 🙂 Love the fact that she jumps into your arms.
Nina, sound like Axl is a bundle of energy and joy. So glad you rescued her.
I spent the whole morning snow blowing the driveway. But when I went to put my critters in last night the barn door was frozen shut and when I did get it open there was almost no room to get a horses a** thru it. I spent 4 hours tonight using a hammer drill with a chisel bit cutting the ice and stone out of the way so the door opens fully. Had to take a vacation day yesterday due to the snow and another today for outside work.
And for the last 2 days I have not seen the outside cat. Hope he is just holed up due to bad weather and will be back to the food dish soon.
A very touching story
http://lovemeow.com/2015/02/cat-breaks-out-of-shelter-return-to-rescuer/
Beautiful, thanks for sharing, Jay.
Seems that I have one of this cats. 🙂
I’m so glad I found this site and all the comments. I didn’t know what to make, of my furry little friend. Last year, I adopted my first Tortie. She must have been the runt of the litter, as she was SO tiny. She was a wild little thing, though – feisty! She has no real meow – rather a squeaking sound, when asking for treats, or a dove-like coo, when she’s trying to communicate or is frustrated. I had lost a cat, that I had had for nearly 20 years, and he had been a companion, to another cat that is still living, and is 17 years old. Well, I thought he needed a new companion, as he cried all the time. Once I got the kitten, he stopped crying. However, he wanted nothing to do with her, as far as playing was concerned. I was saddened by that, as now I had an older cat, who was no longer lonely – but a kitten, with nobody to play with. I bought all kinds of toys, to occupy and amuse her. She prefers to play with boxes, packing peanuts, tin foil and yarn. When she is going through one of her “moods”, she literally climbs the walls. I’m not kidding – she climbs the walls, all the way to the ceiling. I have taken to taping balloons, onto her normal “wall routes”, to try and keep her from tearing the moldings and wall paper apart. She is the strangest, most active cat I have ever had, out of all the 7 cats I have owned, over the years. She is maddening, wild, incredibly smart, clownish (at times), then as sweet as can be – curling up on my chest, to sleep or when something has frightened her. I guess I can safely say she has “Tortitude” and I’m glad, because she is never boring and is a wonderfully funny little bundle of energy, to have around. Her name is Vixen – I think it suits her.
Vixen is such a perfect name for a tortie! She sounds like a wonderful handful!
She is and I’m so happy, to have her – she is fun, to have around! Although, I find it similar to having a toddler child…if she’s too quiet, there must be something wrong – better check! lol!!!
Kayseyes, I have 2 forties and a russian blue. They are often quiet, it is when I hear a loud thump, I go checking. It seems mine have learned to make my dining chairs go over backwards. Don’t ask me why they do this and they only do it if I have already gone to bed. They get very active after the lights go out, so to speak.
Vixen is the perfect name. Sounds like a very strange cat ( or a typical Tortie) Tell us more about her.
When I went to get her, from the foster home, she was the last of the litter. Her litter had been found on the roof of an apartment building and the mother was gone. Her brother was being adopted, by the foster home, so he was there. He was easily 3 times her size – she was teeny tiny, and could fit in my hand. They had her all alone, in their kitchen, blocked in and there were towels all over the floor. I wondered why. It seemed odd, because her brother was out and wandering around the living room, calm as could be. But, when I got her home and let her loose, I discovered why she had been contained, all alone – she was just plain feral! Surprise! lol! Climbed up everything she came across, tore things apart, knocked things over, chewed shoes – you name it, she tried to destroy it! Honestly, she was like a teething puppy and I had to keep my shoes away from her. She had a look, in her eyes that said “Yes, I’m crazy and how are you today?” Then at the same time, she was sweet, to me and curled up under my chin, to sleep. It was the strangest thing, I have ever experienced, with a cat. Now that she is maturing (she is just turning a year old, this month) she has calmed down a bit. She is well loved, so I think that has helped. But for the first 9 months of her life, she must have thought her name was “No”, “Get Down” or “That’s Not For You”…… and she still curls up under my chin – even though she’s too big, now. I don’t mind. She’s a good girl – when she’s sleeping. 🙂
She may calm down a little more as she gets older. Most cats don’t fully mature until they’re between 18 months and 2 years old. She sounds wonderful! I think Allegra thought her name was “Allegrano” during the first few months at my house. She was a chewer, too.
My girlfriend has a tortie cat and my family has had many cats over the years and this tortie is very unique. She owns my girlfriend but not me lol sorry not going to let her smack me around like she does my girlfriend. Very vocal and playful and just wanted to comment that this article is very accurate about the behavior of this tortie cat
Rob, you are so right when you say the Tortie owns your girlfriend. What is wrong with being smacked around by her Tortie 🙂 My Stir used to play with me that way – she wasn’t being mean ( and I know Ingrid has a post on petting aggression) but that was her way of playing. She loved me more than anyone and was always ready for a chin rub or ear scratch after. I have 6 cats being care for by me now and 2 are Torties. Each one is different and all play with me. But I miss Stirfry so much. There will never be another but I have rescued 2 since in her honor.
Rob, you have been and learned that Torties have “fortitude” and do take ownership of their humans. You are “tolerated” by her, but she owns your girlfriend.
I had a tortie that lived to be 21. The best cat that ever owned me. And the best hunter of mice. I miss her everyday. When such a great cat like her owned me like she did, I don’t think I could ever get another. RIP Missy.
I’m so sorry about Missy, Robert.
I know what you mean Robert but before you say never again think of all those homeless cats in shelters or ferals that would love to have what Missy had. She would be honored to have a cat to watch over while she is on the other side of the bridge.
I live in Luton in the UK and we had the most beautiful tortoiseshell cat, my husband rescued her about sixteen months ago, she was a little scrap of a thing and in a really bad way. It took no time at all after medication, good food and love and she blossomed almost overnight. Pisho was fun loving and fearless, climbing trees, sheds, catching mice and bringing them home live!! She loved to sleep on my chest, she’d be on my lap as I painted everyday. She would sit patiently at the kitchen door as I cook for a living. Whenever I went into the garden she would race about showing off and make this sweet sound, like a continuous purr. She was short tempered so you knew when to stop petting her. She stole our hearts and was queen of the house. On the 6th of February she went out and didn’t come back, we searched for her till late. Our son found her the next morning, she’d been run over, not a hundred yards from our home. Someone had picked her up and put her on the inside wall of a front garden which is why didn’t find her in the dark. Its been nearly a month and I still can’t get over her, I feel her everywhere, I have felt her rubbing against my leg and heard her many sounds around the house. I know its going to take time for the pain to subside, but we will never forget her. She was a beautiful gift to us and she packed in so much life in her short time on earth. I know that when this life is over she will be with me again.
Oh, Azra, I’m so sorry about your beautiful Pisho. My heart goes out to you.
So sorry about Pisho. For the short time you had together she was loved and gave it back to you tenfold. She is watching over you and will always be part of your heart.
Thank you so much Ingrid and Jay for your kind messages.xxx
I’m sorry your cat died. I lost my first dog I’d had 7 years from a pup last November and was crushed. He got loose on a walk and I found him hit by a car dead in a ditch a few days later. That hurt, finding him dead, I understand.
I was crushed and sobbed watching my new stray tortoiseshell licking and licking his paw when I got him home. I would feel him everywhere too. Take care. We will see them again.
I still miss mine too, he was such a love. Fostering a 6 day old kitten whose mother just died right now, my tortie’s being good about it. Startled how enriching and pleasurable volunteering is.
I’m in the states, in Louisiana. There’s a lot of tortoiseshells here. Never remember seeing one in the last state I lived, on the West Coast. Had never interacted with one before.
I’m so sorry about your dog, Stephanie.
We’ve just found out that our beloved cat of seventeen years was a tortie and had tortitude … it all is so clear now — and there’s even a NAME for it. “Ranger” died of undiagnosed hyperthyroidism and she is missed. Can you suggest where we might hope to find and adopt another tortie. We just narrowly missed one advertised for adoption from the local shelter and that experience has made us aware we need to finally fill the void left by Ranger’s passing. Thanks for any help you can offer.
I’m sorry about Ranger, Roel. Check Petfinder for your area and use the “Breed” search field to filter by “tortoiseshell” or “tortie,” and you should find your new family member. Alternately, let local rescue groups know that you’re looking for a tortie.
I agree with Ingrid, that is how i found mine. I know a foundation that has couple of them if you are located in the Minnesota area.
Roel, I have a rescued tortie I have been trying to find a home for her as I have 2 other cats already and cannot afford another. She is about 7 months old I have been calling her Cleo. I didn’t know what part of the world you were in. Email me if you have questions.
Laurie, thank you for your interest and offer of help. Yes I am interested in Cleo. We have had best luck with younger pets that have grown old with us so her age is great. I live in North Texas, USA in the little town of Bells — 75 miles north of Dallas. Is that anywhere close to you?
Roel, so nice that you are looking for another Tortie. Seems black cats and Tortie as the last ones that get adopted. A bad rap that is not warranted. Keep looking and check all the local shelters, There is another girl ( or maybe that rare male Tortie) out there waiting for you.
I’ve had two torties myself. Caliegh and Sage. Beautiful little girl a with a tude to match! I just adore them
Amanda, I now too have 2 Torties. Justice and DaJudge. Beautiful as all get out. Both have totally different personalities and both show their Tortitude differently. They do make life interesting.
It was my tortie that won my husband over to the dark side of cat-ownership (being owned by a cat). Dottie is our 11 year old Oriental dilute tortie. She is lilac with “bleach spots” mixed in. She is a very laid back cat who loves everyone, but her “tortitude” shines brightest in party situations when we have many people over. When we have groups of people over, she must have a seat at the table. She’ll listen as people talk and interject her opinions as needed to help progress the conversation. Everyone that meets her is charmed by her well-articulated opinions, and everyone comments that they wish they could understand her because we all bet she’d be the next HG Wells or Dickinson–just an eloquent conversationalist. It is very obvious to all involved that she is the host of the evening. She leads people around, makes her way to each cluster of people, sees people out and wishes them a fond farewell. I always joke that if reincarnation was real, she was a well-to-do Victorian-era duchess or other member of royalty just by the way she conducts herself. She’s always properly groomed, regal in stance, and her voice and demeanor is that of “the lady of the house”. She has always taken to men more than women, but when she met my now husband, it was love at first sight for her. He became hers. She is very attuned to his mood–when he’s sad or upset, she can comfort him better than I ever could, when he’s sick, she is right there, taking care of him. Dottie is definitely my cat, but she has chosen my husband as her human.
Mika (pronounced MEE-kuh because my husband didn’t know how to spell Mieke when he took her to her first vet visit) is a chocolate tortie with a touch of dwarfism. She’s about 7-8 pounds and her legs are half the size of our other cats. Her tortitude showed itself when she triumphantly sauntered into our home, went straight into our cats’ toy box, found herself a ball and started playing with it. She was no older than 12 weeks; we had never seen her before in the neighborhood, and I went to get the mail and she met me at the door as if she’d been my cat for years. Our other cats didn’t know what to make of her. She owned the house from the moment she set foot in it. Dottie is still the matriarch, but Mika is like the manager–keeping everyone in their place include the hubby and me. She is also very vocal like Dottie, but she chirps rather than meows. She, unlike Dottie, though is not interested in any other human beings. She has no desire to meet new people and only comes out when no one other than the two of us are home. If I were to rank the level of “tortitude” in each cat, I’d give Dottie 60% and Mika about 355%. Mika is crazy, loud, and opinionated. But unlike Dottie’s conversational opinions on politics and religion, Mika’s opinions are “against the man”. She questions authority, she tests boundaries, and she talks back when she gets in trouble (think the eye-rolling satirical mimicking children do as you scold them). We joke that Mika has enough personality for at least 25 cats, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. She keeps everyone on their toes, but with that 355% “tortitude” comes at least 500% love and affection. When she’s not talking back, she’s giving kisses and purring louder than all the other cats combined. That cat is an adorable little mess.
We love and admire all 5 of our babies, but our two torties have special places in our hearts. They are just such unique spirits, and the love they both pour out to the two of us seems so pure and deep. Thanks for sharing all of your great tortie stories. 🙂
“Enough personality for at least 25 cats” – now that’s a great way to describe a tortie, Heather! Thanks for sharing Mika with us.
Haha, you’re welcome! This is the only way I can. My biggest regret is that she refuses to come out for anyone else…. I have to post her videos and photos to Instagram to prove that she not only exists but does in fact have that crazy, special personality. 🙂 You can see her photos (and Dottie, and Jack the tabby, and Oreo the tuxedo) on Instagram (username: heatherduck13) if you’re interested.
Heather, I just saw your post. I love what you said about Mika. 355% Tortitude puts her up there with a few of our Torties that crossed the Bridge recently. Steeler, Kasey and Stirfry were in that range if not higher. Keep coming back and telling us more about your kids.
Jay, thanks! I will for sure! Love this blog! 🙂
I too have rescued a torti cat (think she is termed as calico as she has some white too). She twice had been left for dead and when I went and collected her (drove 3hrs to go get her), I found her to be quite feral. She spent the first good week hidden under a bed and it took me quite sometime to be able to pat her without her spinning around trying to attack me. It took me a year to be able to pick her up. I have had alot of cats thru the years but never have I had such a talkative cat before like she is. She has been diagnosed with Anxiety from the vets and tends to not venture far and likes to go in and out alot to make sure someone is home with her. I am so glad I went and got her and now entering into my 3rd year of having her, she has come forth leaps and bounds from the cat when I first collected her and is really cuddly and affectionate. I just need to work out how to stop her bunting me and licking my face at 4am-ish wanting cuddles at that hour of the morning. I love having this cat and her unique character and what an amazing experience it is.
What a wonderful thing you did for this cat, Ange! It just goes to show that with patience and understanding, even the most difficult cat can be brought around. What an amazing transformation!
Thank you Ingrid. The SPCA where she was had said they would have to put her to sleep as she was too wild to be able to home, hence I went and got her. Anyway, I just love her character and she really is a naughty torti at times too. We really need a torti rescue centre here in nz as I was told by the SPCA here that the torti’s are the hardest to find homes for. My mum just last year went to the SPCA to get a cat and came home with a full torti. She is a real tinker and keeps my mum on her toes.
Ange, thank you so much for rescuing her. Sure do wish there was a Tortie Rescue Center. When people find out how special they are there would be a line waiting to get one. I have had up to 4 at once. Tabatha was a Tortie with white – a very gentle and loving cat and from the top looked all Tortie. Belly and paws were white. M Styx is so dark that half the time it looks like she has no eyes. Diver my male is mostly gold with Tortie black. Anyone that met Diver or Tabby would adopt one in an instant. Anyone that met Stirfry would call for an exorcism. She had that effect on people. Look up a picture of Steven King’s Pet Sematary. A book seller showed me the book after I showed her Stirfry’s pic. Stir was way scarier.
After our very quiet, ‘sedate’ tabby was put down a year ago (she was 18/19, and struggling), we acquired a 5 year old calico tortie from a rescue centre. She is a big girl, our Tallula, eats like a horse and is very active. She loves playing with her squeaky toy mouse, usually after a meal. But we have a problem….sometimes when we walk past her, she will grab our legs with her claws extended and an ‘evil’ angry look in her eyes, and has drawn blood twice on my husband. What are we missing? Does she just want us to play more with her, or what? Do you have any suggestions, because this behaviour is not normal, surely? Can you help please?
That sounds like play aggression, Sue. You can find more information about what it is and how to correct the behavior here: https://ingridking.com/2012/02/23/play-aggression-in-cats-biting-the-hand-that-teases/ The article focuses on play aggression directed at the hand, but grabbing the ankles is a variation of the same behavior. It is a hunting/play behavior.
I have been owned by two torties in my life, one of whom is sitting on my lap now. She exhibits a high degree of tortitude, but is one of the most loving cats I’ve ever known. I’ve had Lucy since she was two weeks old. Her mother Ethel is also my cat and she is a sweet calico with much energy.
Both of your girls sound wonderful, Gina-Marie.
I rescued a semiferal tortie last night. She roamed around my dad’s house. She came right up to me last night and demanded to be pet! We brought her home and she made herself right at home. She seems to be doing okay with our other cat. She hasn’t been introduced to our two small dogs quite yet. I am quite nervous about that…..
It sounds like your tortie was ready to be a house cat, Hannah. Here are some tips on how to help cats and dogs get along: https://ingridking.com/2014/08/29/keep-peace-cat-dog/
Thank you! I think she was more than ready. She would sneak her way into my dad’s apartment building. Unfortunately, that building doesn’t accept pets or my dad would have taken her in a long time ago.
We adopted C-Lo from an adoption fair back in 2006. She was a 2 year old tortie and was laying on one of the worker’s shoulders as calm as could be. It would be my husband’s first pet and she was who he picked out. I had grown up with cats but never had a tortie before. We found out when we got home that the reason she was so calm was because she had been spayed the day before and was still recovering. It didn’t take long for her true colors to show! Talk about tortitude! Since we have added 3 male cats to our family, 1 who spent most of his life as a tough street cat, and she still rules the house. Even on her craziest days when someone is not feeling well in our house, even the toddler, she will snuggle up with you until you are feeling better. She is definitely one of a kind and I wouldn’t trade our tortie for anything!
She sounds wonderful, Amanda. I love how she “fooled” your husband.
My Gem does very much the same thing on my bad days 🙂 I’m chronically ill, but on my worst days she hops on my bed or the sofa and cuddles up with me to comfort and purr at me. I was admitted to hospital with gallstones and an infected gall bladder a couple of years ago, and I’d spent a week before my emergency admission lying mostly face-down on my bed with a bucket alongside, vomiting and barely able to eat or drink anything, and she stayed with me the whole time. She’s the smartest cat I’ve ever had, tortie all over but without the notorious temper! 🙂
Cats make the best nurses. There’s actually some scientific evidence that the cat’s purr has healing powers: https://ingridking.com/2009/09/14/the-cats-purr-a-biomechanical-healing-mechanism/
I got my kitty from a co worker in 2007 who rescued cats. My cat does not have a “totitude” she has a “megatude”. Loves people and LOVES TO TALK and is a fighter! No shutting her up! It’s her house and her rules.. i just pay rent. She has been described by the cable guy as EXTREMLY FRIENDLY and NEEDY! She has now decided that anytime my cell phone rings she has to come over and talk into the phone. HAPPY CAT..HAPPY LIFE. LOVE MY CHLOE!
“Megatude” – I love it, Lindsay!
Brilliant to hear I’m not the only tortie slave whose cat interrupts her phone calls to join in! 😉
I am currently adopting a torti, her name is Zelda and she is 4 yrs old. I am looking forward to bringing her into my home. I recently lost my last fur baby mr. miles to diabetes. I had him for 12 yrs and we have grown old together. Looking forward to growing older with Zelda.
Congratulations on your new family member, Kathleen!
It has been five days since I brought Zelda to her furever home. She is the most lovable fur baby I have ever own. She is not shy at all. We fit together like peas n carrots!!
“Like peas n carrots” – I love it, Kathleen!
Ty Ingrid!! Zelda has continued to progress in her new home. I was thinking of getting another cat to keep her company but the foundation where i found her said she doesnt do well with other cats n pets. I am so happy about my decision to get her, she dilled the void after my mr. miles had to be put down. There are healing powers with pets and Zelda is a healer!!
My tortie Muffin went to heaven in Dec 2014 af ter 13yrs together. She was my baby..and def a tortie personality. Everything was on her terms…always.,.she could go from angel to devil in 2seconds. She was just as you describe torties in your article. Such an independant soul…and loving when she wanted it! So feisty. Our vet always told me they are wary of torties as they are so feisty….she certainly kept me on my toes..and I have so scars to prove it. She did mellow in her later years..and actually jumped on my lap for cuddles. She would watch for me everynight when I came home from work…run to thedoor to meet me and meow until I picked her up, then growl for me to put her down. She would then jump on the back of my chair wait for me to sit down then smooch m.y hair and gently bite my head. As soon as Itried to stroke her she would jump down. I loved her just they way she was…so different from other cats I have had in my life. I would never have her anyother way. I miss her so.,..
I’m so sorry about Muffin, Narelle. She sounds like she had tortitude and then some! When I worked in veterinary practices, we had quite a few tortie clients whose charts were labeled with “special” caution stickers :-).
I adopted nala from a aoption fair she chose me we love her ti piecies and yes tortitude is a real thing my ueztion is i cant get her to use the litter box anyone have any sugestions
If you haven’t already done so, take Nala to your veterinarian for a thorough exam to rule out any medical issues. Here’s more information on litter box problems:
If you haven’t already done so, you need to take Nala to your vet to rule out any medical issues. Here’s more information on litter box problems: https://ingridking.com/2011/05/09/how-to-prevent-litter-box-problems/
Oh, yes. I’ve had and known many cats over the years, and all had a certain amount of personality, but the two tortie girls in my life, one who passed away two years ago at the grand old age of 18 and the other who’s right beside me as I type this, have absolutely shown the most intelligence and determined attitude – that tortitude, of course! – of all of them.
Shell was born a farm kitten, the only one to be rescued from a watery fate the farmer had set out for the rest of her litter, and she had the personality of a grumpy old lady who would occasionally choose to be petted, and never meowed but was very loud in all other ways, and very decided about where anyone could touch her, what she would eat and what she would do. She mellowed a bit in her last few years, and the very last time I got to see her (she was a family cat, and she stayed so when I left home) we spent the whole evening in petting and cuddles, with her climbing onto my chest on the bed and purring like a revving motor. She’d originally been given to my grandmother by Dad, and when Grandma died not two years later, after Shell had grown used to being an only cat with an elderly dog, we took her to live with us. She never really did like sharing us with two other cats, but she got used to it in the end and rubbed along okay.
Gemma, whom I mostly just call Gem, is a beautiful dark tortie lady of about twelve, rescued from a former housemate of my sister who treated her very poorly. She’s been with me for about five years now, and has mellowed drastically since she came to live with me – we are very attached to each other.
I’m severely disabled; I don’t move very quickly, and I spend most of my time at home and reclining or lying down. Gem likes that, because loud noises and sudden movements still frighten her from time to time. She’s very averse to kittens and other cats – she hides. I often think she has some lingering kind of feline PTSD, which I suppose also gels with how I live and understand her because I have the human version. She also used to be very afraid of men, so my being a lesbian certainly helped her in that way to start with! Anyway, we are very close and Gem is utterly brimming with tortitude – she has decided opinions on everything and is the most intelligent pet I’ve ever lived with; she’s also extremely talkative, and often behaves in quite doggish ways (wagging her tail when happy, coming to me when I call her name, contentedly having her tummy and paws petted, and never scratching on purpose unless very frightened). She also loves to be photographed – if I pick up my phone to take a picture of her, she poses right away! And to emphasise her intelligence, she even seems to know which side of my phone is which – if I point the camera side at her she’ll pose, but if I aim the screen/microphone side at her, she’ll walk up and meow down the line to say “hi”! 😀
When I do go out, if I leave her for more than four hours she spends the first half-hour after my return home in climbing me and sitting on my shoulder, nuzzling my face and hands and headbutting the back of my head, before letting me rock her like a human baby with her tummy up and paws everywhere, and purring the whole time. After that, she goes off to smell the wheels of my powerchair and the bag on the back before scent-marking them all over again so that any animal who might meet me when I’m out knows I’m hers – I think that’s very sweet.
On top of all this, if I sleep in my bed, she sleeps with me there – either on my legs, on the pillow next to my head or, in the summer, near the bottom of the bed – and if I sleep on my sofa, so does she – again, on my legs, or on the back or arm of the sofa, as close to me as she can be. She does especially seem to prefer to sleep within arm’s length so she can be petted. ♡!
By the way, my website link here leads to a fanlisting for torties, if you might be interested in joining and finding other tortie fans… 🙂
Oh, and that’s Gem in the layout of said site. She’s a tiny little person of just 7lbs, but she eats like a horse!
Your Gem sounds like she was aptly named, Tria! What a special little girl. Thanks for sharing her with us. Feel free to post her photo on our Facebook page!
But of course! I didn’t choose her name and the guy whom as far as I know was the one who did never treated her very well, so I don’t think he could have treasured her enough to call her that, so her name is a nice coincidence, especially as her eyes are a lovely emerald green shade.
Other evidence of her intelligence and fastidious nature: she won’t use her litter tray when she thinks it’s too dirty (she’s an indoor cat, as she’s afraid of traffic), but she doesn’t go on the wetroom floor or anything (as that’s where her tray is, in a corner) – she uses the toilet if the lid is up, and if she can, she poops down the drain in the corner! I’d be waiting for her to learn how to flush if she weren’t so small, I swear!
She also runs to the door to greet me when I come home, and does the same when my carers visit, and watches me and them (from a particular windowsill where she can see the car park, the footpath, the bus stop and the nearby railway station all at once) on our way in and out of the building – she’s even been known to hold meowed conversations with me through the glass. I may not understand the words, but we certainly communicate with each other well enough. 🙂 She tells me very definitely when she wants something and what she wants, by leading me to her dish, tray or jumping on me and meowing until I fill, clean or pet! *g*
Her morning routine in summer is like this: when my morning carer rings the doorbell (usually about 9am), she jumps off me if we’re in bed, and runs to the door while I answer it. When the carer comes in Gem follows her until her dish is filled, eats while other things are being done, watches the carer leave and then comes back to me. If I’m not in bed she follows me around my apartment staring at me and meowing loudly until I go back to bed; if I’m in bed with my knees up she’ll stare and meow until I put them down so she can lie on me, and if my knees are down that’s what she’ll do. If I get up before 11am she’ll follow that routine to that hour unless I do go back to bed. *G* Fortunately, I don’t usually get up before as I struggle to function before noon (an odd trait of my primary illness). She’s a smart miss, though, that one’s for sure. I’m glad you agree. 😉
Where is the page? I found you through a random search.
She sure is a very special little girl, Tria. Our Facebook page is http://facebook.com/consciouscat.
Our Lucy is a rescue cat from a senior who could not care for her any longer. She certainly has an attitude and hid for 2 weeks when we first got her. She is a shy cat who will not tolerate being picked up, but will come to you frequently to be petted. When I go to bed she is there with me demanding to be petted, but will not curl up with me. She absolutely hates having her claws trimmed and cries and cries when my wife and I hold her. On the other hand, our other cat, a male tiger, is complacent during this process. She is certainly not a lap cat — unless she decides to come to you — and always my wife.
Lucy sounds like she’s got quite a bit of tortitude, Tom. It sounds like she’s warming up to both of you.
Tracy (tres) she’s tricolored – has been the cat ‘love of my life’. MANY cats have shared life w/me but none as sweet and as much a people cat as her…We’re aging together but afraid may be her last winter. have been enjoying a cold winter morn by sketching her and appreciating her lovable furry energy! Have enjoyed reading everyone else’s cat stories…thankful for our Creator’s gift of cats!
This was definitely true of my cat Sienna, she was definitely feisty and definitely had that sassy tortietude. Sadly, she suddenly passed this Sunday. She definitely gave me an appreciation for torties. I loved her independence, love, playfulness, and talkativeness.
I’m so sorry about Sienna, Cinthia.
That’s sad, I am sorry for your loss.
I adopted a tortie from the Humane society about two years ago, and I completely agree with you on these cats have tortitude. I love KitKat, and couldn’t image my house without her. I think she has that hyper sensitive thing going on, but she can also be very loving. During the day she is kind of on edge it seems, and really doesn’t want to be bothered, but when it is time to go to bed, she always jumps up in the bed and curls up next to me. Thanks for your article on tories it was great. I hope to see more articles in the future.
Torties can be more high-strung than other cats, Justin. Your tortie sounds wonderful.
Hi. We have two tortoise shells sisters, nearly 5 months old called Amber and Sapphire who we love dearly. They are our first torties and we did not have any clue when we got them the reputation they have. But after telling people about them everyone has said ‘naughty tortie’ and to be honest, they are just learning how to be that!
They love playing fetch with their toys, running a mock in the bedroom sometimes as early as 6am to remind you they need feeding, play fighting and then laying in the kitchen on their backs to get your attention to tickle them. But they are also very loving, they really like to be close to you and each other which is so sweet to see. We definitely love our Torties. ❤️
Welcome to the wonderful world of tortitude, Sam – times two!
Just a few months ago i came accross a woman that had claimed that my little Tortie had been found in a garbage bag with its 4 other siblings, dead..her mother had come accross this bag and saved my little Shadow and i am so thankful she had. She is a 5 month old Tortie kitten with lots of spunk and attitude, and is extremely possesive over me. She never stops meowing and makes her self known, and when she isnt meowing or demanding to be pet she usually lays on my head, licks my hair and face and goes to sleep. I had owned a RagDoll cat once and she was amazing, but this little Tortie i now have is the most amazing little creature god created ❤️ I love my Tortie
What a rough start to life for your little girl, Katrina. She sounds wonderful!
We have been owned by three Torties over the years, and they all had independent but distinct personalities than any other of our feline friends. Our last one is almost four and had two previous owners; the last being somewhat rough with her, so may have helped develop the attitude she has.
My husband named her Luci, but after a brief spell of ownership, her name became Ms. Lucicatitude. She interacts totally different with each of us, knowing she has him wrapped around her paws, and as he calls her, is his dog and constant companion out doors… Between us, we have a mutual love but I expect her to follow certain rules and she was easily trained to get down, sit down, lay down and shut the door. She hates big men, especially ones with fluffy coats and hats on, and is fiercely protective of me.
One thing she expects from us , besides lots of love and petting, is to not touch her feet or belly and doing so gets teeth and claws unleashed. She has food allergies; and pulls hair. We have her on a hypoallergenic food, but she still pulls hair. Does anyone out there know of a herbal remedy to give her that will help ease this problem. Blessings on all fellow Tortie lovers, they are much fun.
Ms. Lucicatitude – I love the name, Jacque! Here’s some information on food allergies,which includes information on holistic treatments: https://ingridking.com/2013/09/09/food-allergies-in-cats/
Love!
We were adopted by a Tortie stray cat (semi-feral) that has been on its own for quite awhile. She has been living in our barn and we have been having long meowing conversations and feeding her fish. We live trapped her last night and brought her in our mudroom until she gets fixed on Tuesday. Never hissed once when in the live trap! Well, of course we set up a comfy cage and she is roaming free in there. Didn’t take long for her to come out and demand some petting! Lots of petting going on these past 12 hours since physical contact. TORTITUDE shows when I get up to leave room and head to door… She gets inbetween me and Dior and hisses. Not a hunched up hiss but a bitchy one none the less! Anyway, she is ours now and we are going to introduce her to dogs so they stop chasing her. We are hoping she wants to come in at night in the future. We live her.
Thank you for rescuing your tortie! I hope the introduction to your dogs goes well.