Today marks the fifth anniversary of Ruby’s passing. In some ways, it seems like it was only yesterday that my spirited girl was still with me. In other ways, it seems like she’s been gone for a very long time.
This time of year will always be bittersweet because I can’t help but remember how her illness changed how I experience Christmas, especially when the realization hit that I wouldn’t get that last Christmas with her that I wanted so badly. I could have kept her around for another week, but I would have done that for me, not for her.
That little girl took a piece of my heart with her when she left, and even though I feel her around me all the time, the pain of missing her never quite goes away.
Allegra and I will spend today remembering our precious girl. I’ll leave you with this collage of photos so you can remember her as well.
I don’t think we ever get over the loss. I lost both of my 2 girls within the past 4 months. My vet made big mistakes. They are still in the morgue because I can’t bring myself to find the right urn and saying. I had them since they were babies. My house is so empty. Ruby was so cute, Her personality shows she was so special in the pictures. I am sorry for you loss.
Oh Sandy, I’m so sorry. To lose both in such a short period of time is just devastating. My heart goes out to you.
Ingrid, I don’t know if you’re able to communicate with animals or not. If not, have you ever thought about contacting an animal communicator to connect with Ruby so you can actually talk to her? Allegra too. There are several really good animal communicators who do this, one I use a lot is Val Heart at http://learnhowtotalkto animals.com. Just a thought.
Yes, I have been working with an animal communicator, Patty.
I lost my first cat almost ten years just a few days before Christmas too. She is the reason I now live with four cats, foster regularly, and work with cats.
Your words about Ruby perfectly capture my feelings: ” In some ways, it seems like it was only yesterday that my spirited girl was still with me. In other ways, it seems like she’s been gone for a very long time.”
Thank you for all you do for cats, Allison.
I know how devastating Ruby’s passing was for you, Ingrid, and what a big part of your heart she took with you when she had to leave. But I can’t believe that that sparkling sprite of a cat is far from you. She loved you too much, and you made her very happy…and we never stay away from those we love any longer than we can help it.
With her, that is.
Thank you for your beautiful words, Tammy.
I feel your pain. Our fur babies are like angels who come into our lives for a short time, yet bring us so much joy! I am also still grieving my precious soul cat, Zoe. I believe I always will and I’m okay with that. Wishing you peace and comfort.
I’m sorry about your precious Zoe. Wishing you peace and comfort, too.
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I lost a black cat 3 years ago and he still very much in my tender memories. So I know how you feel about Ruby. I now have four kitties and they all are very near and dear to me and my wife
The memories always stay with us. I’m glad you have your four kitties.
Ingrid, we understand what you feel. Whether you have one or two or thirty, they are all individuals living their own journey with us. They brighten our lives while they are with us and give us smiles as we remember our time with them when they are gone.
Thank you, Stoney.
My heart breaks for you! My beautiful calico, Gabby, passed away shortly after Ruby. I miss her so much! I hope you have a wonderful Christmas! I will keep you in my prayers.
Thank you, Debra. Wishing you a wonderful Christmas, too!
May Ruby (and you and Allegra) be blessed with happiness and free from all pain and suffering (Buddhist prayer).
The iheartcats.com store has a beautiful silver bell “It’s A Wonderful Life” angel cat ornament this year, with a sweet tag and wings, noting that when you hear the bell ring, an angel cat has earned her/his wings. And purchase helps feed shelter cats. WinWin. I got one to honor our departed Gabie.
Thank you for that beautiful Buddhist prayer, Marie.
She was such a beautiful baby. Love and peace to you. ❤️
Thank you, Brooke.
Sending lots of love your way today. Focus on the happy memories. Ruby was a special girl and I know she wouldn’t want you sad.
Thank you, Janine.
We love and miss “our” Ruby. She was a part of all of our lives. Our hearts are with you, Ingrid.
Thank you, Will. It means a lot to know others are missing her, too.
I had a girl who looked like Ruby and she also died young (from an aggressive skin cancer). I look at Ruby’s pictures and know how painful her loss still is for you because I miss mine, too. .
I’m sorry about your girl, Nancy. We never stop missing them.
Will always remember sweet Ruby….such a gorgeous little girl. I know how this time of year hurts when a loved one is lost….sending comforting hugs to you Ingrid and Allegra.
Thank you so much, Jackie.
Ruby was a very special girl. We remember her as well and cherish that memory.
Thank you, Leonor.